Unconditional Love. It’s this right here:
Love doesn’t trap you, it sets you free ~ 💞💞😁💞💞
You’ll know when you’re in a healthy relationship when you feel you are a team. If you aren’t in a good place – an emotionally balanced, mature, stable, grounded state – forget about making it through any conflicts with a successful compromise. When you accept each other just the way you are, you give each other the space & freedom to grow & evolve. If you enter one of those “they try to change you” relationships, walk away. They aren’t in the right place yet. The last thing you want to enter is a needy, naggy, insecure, co-dependent, toxic relationship. Don’t do that. People gotta do things cuz they want to – not cuz they have to; or it’ll build up resentment.
Partners – the team – must be able to calmly discuss their concerns if & when conflicts arise; knowing they’ll be a given a safe space to voice what they need to & be heard. With the toxic, co-dependent couple, it doesn’t usually take long for someone to fly off the handle in a rage, unable to control their emotions, & reacting instead of responding. Both parties should have dealt with their shit, not needing to be with someone, but wanting to. When more people realize they are responsible for their own happiness, not their partner, there’ll be a helluva lot less of unhappy people.
Happiness is not outside of you – it’s a feeling – it resides inside. And you get to choose how to feel (Imagine that!) so ‘Choose Happy’ & watch your life transform. It’s easy as choosing a blue shirt for work or a cheeseburger for unch! You make all kinds of choices every day; What’s one more?
Look at you go you Alchemist you!